Thursday, April 28, 2011

a few of my favorite things

I know so many pregnant people right now!  In my tired little head,  I was going to make them all "survival kits" filled with goodies that I've used over and over during these first few weeks.  But with a newborn who's still under ten pounds, it's hard to get out and shop.  So instead, I'll just pass on my -- wisdom -- to anyone who is reading!

So ... this one's for you: all my pregnant friends and family. 

This isn't meant to be advice at all -- just a few little things that will make your first weeks at home run a bit smoother.

We've spent tons on a car seat, a stroller, a swing, a crib.
We've got our own breast pump (and a rented one, too, come to think of it), bassinet, and pack 'n play.

And all those things have been useful.  But I must say that it's the little things we've used most -- and most often.  These have been my personal favorite.

Swaddle blankets that are large and stretchy.


These are the pottery barn variety -- I got them as a gift -- and they are my favorite.  Swaddle blankets - or receiving blankets - come in all shapes, sizes, and fabrics.  Who knew?  The cheap ones you can pick up at Target or Walmart are often flannel and they make great bed rolls or simple covers.  But if your newborn wants to be swaddled tight, you'll need blankets that are generously cut and made of a fabric that stretches!  With stretchy fabric, you can get a tight swaddle that even feisty little legs can't break through!

Burp rags.  We go through tons of these things, and little man isn't even a spitter.  There are two in the diaper bag at all times, and at least two floating around the house.  I can't stand it when they start to smell even the slightest bit sour, so I wash and rotate constantly.  If you're like me, you'll need more than you think.  My favorite are the old fashioned cloth diaper type.  I got some really cute ones as gifts (thanks, Traci!) and use them all the time!

Babywise.


I know this is a bit controversial, but I read the book while I was pregnant and have pulled it out about ten dozen times since Luke came home.  I think it has tons of great advice, it's easy to read and comprehend (even at 3 o'clock in the morning, on very little sleep!) and it's been really helpful for me in establishing a routine in these early days.  We do not follow it word for word.  I've taken a few concepts from it that we hold hard core, but there are some things that didn't work out for little man.  Combined with your mommy instincts, it's a nice tool to help your tired little brain start to think about routine.  

Nursing pads.  Only if you're breastfeeding, of course. 

These come in many forms.  Disposable and washable, to start.  I prefer washables for comfort, but disposables for better absorption.  And trust me, I've tried every brand out there!  Don't waste your money!  Just go ahead and stock up on these little guys!  These washable pads are from A Pea in the Pod, but they're also sold at Motherhood Maternity.  They come in white and a linen color.  They're the best.  And as for the disposable ones, I prefer the Lansinoh pads, in a big purple box.  They're softer than the other ones and have two sticky patches for better placement.  

Lactation consultant.  And while we're on breastfeeding, don't underestimate the power of the lactation consultant.  I met one while still in the hospital with Luke and I swear, she's amazing.  These ladies have a bad reputation for being crazy or insensitive.  But Sherri has been wonderful.  She spent hours with us before we left and I've consulted with her multiple times since I got home.  If you don't click with the first one you meet, find one you like and trust!

Log4Baby.  This is an iPhone app that replaces the ItzBeen.  It's a great tool that allows you to log everything from feedings to diaper changes to sleeping times.  I still log every feed and every time I pump.  Also, it lets you log custom things, too, so I can keep track of the time Luke wears his splint, takes medicine, etc.  I really like that everything is saved, and I can email or print the logs as well.  It's neat to look back and see patterns and changes.

That's a short list of my favorite things!

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

time flying by

Can't believe it's been so long since I posted.
Time with little man is just flying by.
We fill our days with things like this ...


Luke and Molly's first real play date.  Luke played.  Molly snoozed.


Sleeping on the couch with mommy.  (Adam took this, we were completely out!)
And excuse the poor photo quality.  Most of these are iPhone pics...  The best way to capture sweet memories in the moment!


Going to the hardware store with Daddy - in his first pair of shoes!


Rocking on aunt Kathryn's front porch in Kerrville.  (Took a great road trip! Luke enjoyed the Texas Hill Country and his first night in a hotel!)


Smiling at himself in the mirror!  Little man loves the mirror! 

The other day I ventured off to HEB all by myself (a nice treat!) while Luke was at home with Adam.  I got this picture via text and it made my whole day.  What a precious family we have!




This little man has totally changed our lives.  Motherhood is humbling and terrifying and frustrating and wonderful.  Just one look at this face and I am reminded of the love and grace that God gives us, daily.  

Thank You, Jesus, for this precious Life. 

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

daisy

And ... just because she hasn't gotten much attention lately ...

letting go

Today, I didn't make the bed. 
It's one of the first times in six weeks that I let the house be a little messy. 
I'm learning to let go so I can savor moments like this.


I've heard that the newborn stage goes by so fast.
I want to enjoy every second.

Every yawn and stretch.
Every cry!

I want to hold him while he sleeps and just stare at his face. 
I want to read him books, even before he can see the pages.
I want to sing the froggie song over and over, knowing that someday he'll sing it back!

I don't think I'll make the bed tomorrow, either. 

Sunday, April 3, 2011

hello hello

Sleepy Sunday afternoon. 

Saturday, April 2, 2011

cuteness



Didn't think it was possible for him to get any cuter.  But every day I look at my little man and think, ya know, you're even cuter today than you were yesterday.  

 Six weeks old.